I’m probably preaching to the choir here…but something I gotta get off my chest nevertheless…(excuse the profanity, but Anger is My Motor needs an outlet!)
Where the hell has reasoned, civilized, intellectual political debate gone nowadays? Meaning: why can’t people with differing opinions talk with some measure of decency and common sense? Younger folks and older ones alike…All too often I’ve gotten into a discussion with someone on a hot topic and they blow up and start taking out personal attacks and talking sh*t. And more often than not, they don’t know what the hell they’re talking about, either. To me, a good academic, intellectual debate focuses on history, policy, and consideration of all sides. It’s like yo: if I’m criticizing a particular candidate…this is not at attack on YOU. We.are.discussing.public.figures.and.issues. This isn’t even about you! So talking smack about the other person will not help your argument…rather it will END IT!
A good example: I got into an argument with someone a few weeks ago about Obama vs. other candidates in the upcoming election. Anyone acquainted with me knows that I’m an Obama supporter. Not that I don’t find things that I don’t necessarily like, there are no perfect candidates. But in the current election, I’ve begun to really detest Hillary and her race-baiting comments...and McCain is pretty much Bush: the Second Generation. So I think Barack is the man for the job, imperfect as he may be. When I simply suggested that “Hey, how come you don’t support Obama?” (It’s called CANVASSING, people) to this other person, instead of engaging in a lively political debate this person trips out and starts a) Making personal attacks on me/other Obama supporters b)Accusing me of “telling him/her what to think/do”.
Uh, okay…
Obviously, anyone with half a brain/college education should be well versed in intellectual debate. Trying to convince other people to support a particular candidate is what WE DO! If you disagree…it’s totally cool! But don’t start talking smack about individuals…debates are about ideas and issues. When we start making personal attacks we 1) Take the focus off of the issue at hand 2)Devolve the argument into petty bickering 3) Don’t do anything constructive because you’ve effectively ended dialogue by hurting someone’s feelings. All in all, not good.
Also, it also speaks to the fact that young folks in general need to educate themselves about current issues. We have a huge stake in what’s going on around the world, people! The Iraq War: who’s fighting it? 18-30 year olds! Who feels the effects of economic recession/hunger first? Young people! Rising gas prices, increasing tuition, gang violence, you name it…we will be dealing with the aftereffects of what happens NOW in the coming decades. So PLEASE educate your damn selves, so you don’t construct faulty, dumb-sh*t arguments and then start tripping out when someone calls you on it! Have an educated response! BE SMART!
This is not to say passion and anger and what not can’t be good things. Hell, it what motivates me to write to begin with. But that can be channeled into passionate debate and brainstorming, to be used constructively. So that’s our challenge: to speak to our disagreements without hurting the individual, to resolve bigger issues without petty bickering. it’s a tall order folks, but I think there is hope.


Beauty Politic
Posted in random with tags fashion, political commentary on May 27, 2008 by SultanaAt the airport, en route a couple of days back, I found myself with only two pieces of reading material: Elle and Vogue. Believe it or not, I am actually a regular reader of fashion magazines, Vogue in particular…for the fashion photo spreads (some of which can be cool and edgy–such as the one featuring Japanese designer Rei Kawakubo in August 2006, one of my favorites). The artistry and self-expression in fashion is what I find compelling.
But I digress.
The isolation/boredom of being alone in an airport can lead to all sorts of interesting epiphanies. I was flipping through Elle (which, coincidentally, had Rihanna on the cover) and had a thought: let’s say hypothetically, aliens landed on Earth, and through some radical coincidence they got their hands on an internationally syndicated fashion magazine like Elle…and they read it from cover to cover, including fashion spreads and ads. What conclusion would they come to? 1) Everyone on Earth is a Size 0- and 2) We are a globe dominated by white people.
Why? Because almost EVERY single model in those pages would be Caucasian, (and a total twig). OK, you might think, everyone knows that. What I think is more interesting is what that says about what is being marketed to us as beautiful. Beauty is more than what is aesthetically pleasing to the eye (even that is not as objective as you think). Beauty has a whole host of political and cultural meanings: what is valued, what is “good”, what is treasured, desired and admired by men and women alike around the globe. For women especially, it is central to our self-confidence (for good or worse). How many young girls read magazines like Vogue and aspire to be more like the women in its pages?
But say you’re a Brown girl, Black, or any mixed caramel in between. Say you don’t have those nordic features, that blond straight hair, light skin and light eyes. YOU are not reflected in those pages…like a big, giant YOU DON’T BELONG sign, you are not beautiful by our standards. A sprinkle of “exotic” is okay, maybe. But not too much… hence the popularity of mixed race models. And even these are primarily those mixed with white. Again, the history of blatant racism in the modelling industry is no surprise: Tyson Beckford, Naomi Campbell, Tyra Banks and others have spoken out about it.
Rather, what I find most disturbing about the almost total absence of people of color from the runways is the global reach of the white-as-beautiful mantra. One can argue that yes, there are local magazines in non-European countries that promote their own ideals of beauty. But I argue that it is definitely not an equal playing field, Vogue, Elle, Cosmopolitan, etc etc have a massive, dominant and widespread audience. And secondly, even “brown/black” oriented women’s mags fall into the trap of promoting Caucasian oriented standards of beauty, light skin/straight hair/colored eyes et cetra.
This is not to say that white women aren’t beautiful. But I will say that for the longest time–and certainly now, they are perceived at the top of the proverbial heap when it comes to beauty. Too be “other”, brown/black/dark was too be uglier, less desired, less MARKETABLE. Even though humankind is infinitely more diverse, extreme, and different than Elle and Vogue would suggest…they simply DON’T reflect the world we live in. And as beauty is the standard by which our society judges women to a large degree, what is considered beautiful affects which women are valued and put up on a pedestal, and which ones are not.
I’ll leave you with this pic, which had me simultaneouly outraged and in stiches. This is Vogue India’s inaugural cover, with two dark, gorgeous indian models/actresses…and a white model plunked in the middle, ’cause you know how light-skinned Europeans totally reflect what the average South Asian female looks like (dripping with sarcasm, of course. ha)
WTF?
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